Dating moving fast

by  |  25-Oct-2019 02:00

But i feel like hes speeding because he wants to be in a relationship and tomorrow im seeing him again. If your guy spent more time among Russians than you, then this would explain the difference between you and him.

To him it might seem that he is moving at normal speed, because that's how many Russians in Russia do it.

And yet, I found myself feeling exactly the same way. Our first date had been simultaneously fun and comfortable. It was something I wanted, something that made me happy, but, because of all the warnings on the Interwebs about moving too fast, I felt like it was wrong.

I know this is beyond cliche, but there was such a strong, instantaneous connection that it just felt natural to hang out with him the next day. I gave myself a million reasons why I shouldn’t continue at break-neck speed with my new beau.

I would understand if one of the two in the relationship is moving too fast and the other is not.

But why is it a bad thing when both of them are moving too fast? I don't have anything against it, I just don't understand why it's a bad thing.

After all, who wants to have just anybody near their pride and joy? While it’s great you want to see where your new boo thang comes from, work on solidifying your relationship before you take such a serious step.

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