You make compromises you wouldn’t typically consider in order to give the relationship a chance.Still, connection or not, you must take a sober look to determine if someone is truly available for intimacy.
The "booby prize" in life is trying to understand or change the behavior of an emotionally unavailable person.
(Only they can change themselves.) People can be for both healthy and unhealthy reasons.
Then, there are those who are too afraid of taking the risk of falling in love because they have been hurt too much in their previous relationships.
Ironically, most emotionally unavailable people are easy to spot, quite transparent, showing you their true colors, right from the beginning.
Or maybe, she chose a more ‘classic’ breakup choice of the growing distant, complaining that you just weren’t there for her anymore and before you knew it every reason that you forsook your other life gets throw in your face even if you made those choices for her.