Advise on dating a married man
He has not had sex with her for over a year, and she does not want to go back to her country. We doubt he is keeping her as up to date about you, as he “appears” to be keeping you informed about her. If you pursue this romance you are implicitly endorsing a model for behavior in life and love.
So there would seem to be a high probability that deceit is in his behavioral repertoire. Take his story at face value and we notice his proclivity to weasle his way around problems — rather than deal with them head on. So be sure you understand the model you are acting out.
We see each other many hours a day, we love each others’ company, but I am worried about the wife. But it seems to us that he certainly must be lying to someone — at least to his wife.
He bought his wife over from another country, then she changed.
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